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Lessons Learned During Curfew

27th Jan 2026

Art, books, Humanity, Leadership, Lifestyle, Movies, Nature Illustrations, Newsletter, Religion, Uncategorized
Hatred, Curfews, and a Man Who Smelled of Cows

Is it really that hard to love? Or, to put it more honestly, is it just far too easy to hate? I can dislike many things—traffic, small talk, badly written signs—but hatred is something else entirely. It is dislike that has put on combat boots and decided to go looking for trouble.

I grew up in Baroda (Gujarat, India) in the 1980s, a period best described as educationally committed but socially volatile. Riots were frequent, curfews longer, and logic largely optional. Our home sat firmly inside a curfew zone; my primary school, inconveniently, did not. School, it seemed, was non-negotiable—even when the city was periodically on fire.

So my father—Baba—improvised. He bribed auto-rickshaw drivers, and almost certainly a policeman or two, to smuggle me across barricaded streets so I wouldn’t miss maths lessons. Religious extremism was allowed a free run; missing school was not.

Around this time my maternal grandfather came to stay with us. He was in the early stages of Alzheimer’s and had developed a fondness for walking out of the house without the faintest idea of how to return. Most days my mother intercepted him with the precision of airport security. One day, however, life intervened.

Dadu went out in the afternoon. The sun went down. Dadu did not come back.

By the time my father returned from work, the house was thick with panic. Without hesitation—or perhaps without fully processing the wisdom of this decision—he went back out into a city already sliding into riot mode, to look for a man who no longer recognised addresses, landmarks, or indeed urgency.

After knocking on doors and interrogating strangers, Baba finally found Dadu sitting happily in the cowshed of our local milkman, in excellent spirits and questionable company of the buffaloes and the cows. The milkman explained that he assumed someone would eventually come looking and saw no reason to rush matters.

What emerged later was the more remarkable part of the story. While my father was there, a group of neighbours—Muslims, like the milkman—arrived and demanded that my father be handed over to them. The milkman refused. He explained, patiently, that this man was not a zealot, not a provocateur, not worth anyone’s outrage. He was simply retrieving his lost father-in-law.

My father came home with Dadu, the story, and a problem: Dadu smelled strongly of cows and their assorted outputs. This was resolved swiftly with a hose.

I revisit this memory often—not because I believe in religious madness (I don’t), but because I believe, somewhat unfashionably, that most people are decent when given half a chance. That even in situations perfectly engineered for violence, someone might choose restraint instead.

And whenever hatred feels tempting—efficient, righteous, justified—I think of consequences. Not in abstract terms, but practical ones. Who gets hurt. Who gets saved. And who ends up needing to be hosed down at the end of the evening.

Where Beauty Knows No Borders

These pieces were painted slowly, by hand, using Sennelier watercolours — guided by colour, texture, and instinct. Flowers, birds, and faces come together as quiet symbols of resilience, softness, and continuity.

The portrait of the Ukrainian woman features a traditional floral headscarf (khustka), long worn as a symbol of identity, strength, and belonging. Set against sunflowers, it honours both cultural heritage and quiet defiance.

Across every piece, the message remains the same: beauty is universal — it transcends borders, languages, and circumstance.

Reading & Watching

★★★★★ The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny — Kiran Desai
A humane, emotionally intelligent novel about love, inheritance, and immigration. Desai captures the exhaustion of endless reinvention with poetry and restraint, building a world that feels deeply lived-in and quietly devastating.

★★★★★ Hamnet
Chloé Zhao’s restrained direction turns grief into something domestic and intimate. Jessie Buckley is extraordinary, Paul Mescal quietly devastating. A film that trusts silence, stillness, and emotional precision.

What we mistake for leadership

Perhaps forgetting harm, accountability, and the lessons of recent history was never the answer. What we need is a braver way of remembering—one that holds people to account without cruelty, speaks with conviction without contempt, and creates distance without dehumanising.

True leadership is not loud or divisive. It is courageous, steady, and humane.

Leaders are peace-makers, economists of consequence, stabilisers in chaos, facilitators, enablers, and problem-solvers. They do not fracture societies, reduce entire races or cultures to caricatures, or thrive on fear and hatred.

And yet, we keep mistaking noise for strength and division for direction.

If magic existed, I wouldn’t ask for erasure.

Just enough rain to clear our sight.
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Finding Focus: The Key to Kindness and Community

19th Sep 2025

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Focal Point

Life drowns us in noise—commitments, distractions, endless demands. In that blur, we risk losing sight of what matters. So I ask: what is my focal point?

For me, it’s the smallest, strongest things—kindness, trust, respect. They steady my household of three and ripple outward.

A small incident brought this home. My daughter lost her phone on a bus. Three attempts later, we retrieved it. The real lesson wasn’t about the phone—it was about focus. Without attention to small details, bigger things slip.

And that truth stretches wider. Our national gaze is fixed on asylum seekers, turned into scapegoats. But the real issue isn’t them—it’s crumbling healthcare, childcare, and social care, leaving families to cope alone.

When we misplace our focus, we chase the wrong enemy. When we return it—to daily acts of kindness, to well-funded services—we steady not just our lives, but our society.

Because in the end, it’s not noise or anger that sustains us. It’s focus. On what matters most.

Believing in humanity , not division, not hatred

At the heart of every society lies a choice: to believe in one another, or to surrender to fear. Too often, we are urged toward the latter. Leaders rise on promises not of unity, but of suspicion. They point to difference—of race, religion, nationality, gender—as a fault line, a danger. And people, weary and anxious, follow. Division has become a political strategy, wielded like a weapon.

But humanity is not built on suspicion. It is built on connection. Every small act of kindness—holding open a door, listening without judgment, checking on a neighbour—shows how natural it is for us to care. We are wired to look after one another, to share burdens, to extend trust. When leaders try to fracture that instinct, they are not just undermining politics—they are undermining what makes us human.

The danger is clear. When fear becomes the focal point, hatred follows. Refugees become scapegoats for broken public services. Migrants are blamed for economic strain that is rooted in policy failures. Communities are set against one another while those in power escape accountability. Division blinds us to the real problems and drains us of the will to solve them together.

Yet history reminds us that hatred never sustains a society. It corrodes it. The moments we look back on with pride—the civil rights movement, the fight against apartheid, communities rebuilding after war or disaster—are moments when people chose humanity over division. When they refused to believe the lie that their neighbour was their enemy.

To believe in humanity today is a radical act. It is to insist that empathy is stronger than fear. It is to demand leaders who unite rather than fragment, who address root causes instead of inventing scapegoats. And it is to live, in small daily ways, as though our shared dignity matters more than our differences.

The world will not change overnight. But every time we reject division, every time we refuse hatred, we tilt the balance toward a society worth living in. Believing in humanity is not naïve—it is necessary. Because without it, there is no future, only fragments. With it, there is the possibility of wholeness, of peace, of a world rebuilt not on fear, but on trust.

Studio highlights

Festive collection – Autumn and Winter

Bring the season and the countryside into your home with these beautifully illustrated cushions.

🎄 Christmas Garden – A joyful blend of poinsettias, amaryllis, cyclamen, and narcissus, intertwined with ivy wreaths and playful robins. This design captures the heart of Christmas: nature, warmth, and a touch of festive magic. Perfect for adding a seasonal glow to any room.

🐓 Country Hens – A rustic celebration of farmyard life, with richly detailed hens nestled among vibrant blooms against a classic gingham backdrop. This cushion radiates rural charm, evoking the comfort of slow mornings and timeless countryside kitchens.

Together, they bring a mix of cosy rural aesthetic and festive cheer—ideal for gifting or refreshing your home décor.

🕸️ Hauntingly Beautiful Decor – Halloween Collection 🕸️

Step into the season of shadows with these richly illustrated designs, perfect for adding a gothic flourish to your walls or kitchen this Halloween.

🌑 Elegy of the Enchanted Bloom – A darkly magical arrangement of poisonous and mystical flowers—deadly nightshade, hellebore, foxgloves, bleeding hearts—intertwined with autumn leaves against a starry night sky. This piece is a celebration of nature’s eerie beauty, balancing elegance with a sinister seasonal edge.

🌕 Quoth the Raven – Inspired by Edgar Allan Poe’s immortal verse, this design brings together a glowing harvest moon, watchful ravens, swirling bats, and carved pumpkins. It’s the perfect marriage of gothic literature and Halloween tradition, making it an atmospheric statement for any room.

Together, these designs embody the spirit of Halloween—mystical, gothic, and beautifully haunting—ideal as striking wall decor or seasonal tea towels that turn everyday spaces into enchanted ones.

Bibliophile

The Hallmarked Man by Robert Galbraith (***)

Robert Galbraith’s The Hallmarked Man is a sprawling mystery that offers intriguing ideas but struggles to deliver a fully satisfying whole.

The strengths lie in character and atmosphere. The chemistry between Strike and Robin continues to shine: moments like Strike gifting Robin a silver charm bracelet tied to their shared cases, or his calm reassurance after she’s attacked by a masked man, give the novel real emotional weight. These touches remind us why readers invest in the series.

The backdrop is equally compelling. The case revolves around a mutilated body found in the vault of a silver shop specialising in Masonic silverware, right next to Freemasons’ Hall. This allows Galbraith to delve into the rituals, secrecy, and influence of the Masons—including their shadowy ties to the police. It’s an unusual and fascinating thread, and one of the book’s most original elements.

But despite these strengths, the novel falters. At over 900 pages, it often drags, weighed down by a vast cast of characters—Decima Mullins, Rupert Fleetwood, Jason Knowles, William Wright, Niall Semple, Tyler Powell, and many more—whose stories blur together. At times I felt I needed a notebook just to keep track.

At the cinema

The Roses (Comedy/Drama) ****

The Roses is a darkly funny, unsettling take on the breakdown of a marriage, anchored by superb performances from Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch.

Colman’s Ivy Rose is thriving with her new restaurant, while Cumberbatch’s Theo struggles with his fading career. What begins as friction quickly escalates into open warfare. Their chemistry makes the story compelling—you believe both the love that once bound them and the bitterness that now consumes them.

Tony McNamara’s script crackles with sharp dialogue, shifting from playful wit to venom in seconds. Colman and Cumberbatch deliver it flawlessly, turning small spats into cutting battles. The supporting cast, including Andy Samberg, Kate McKinnon and Allison Janney, adds humour and contrast without diluting the central conflict.

The film’s strength lies in how it balances comedy with genuine emotional pain. At times, though, the tone wobbles between satire and grim realism, and a few supporting characters feel more like sketches than people. Comparisons to the original War of the Roses are inevitable, and some plot beats will feel familiar.

Even so, The Roses stands out as a stylish, unsettling story of love gone sour—funny, painful and powered by two unforgettable performances.

Lyme Regis: Our End-of-August Ritual

The last days of August always bring a change. This year, the long dry spell finally broke—rain revived my weary lawn, sparing me those endless trips with the watering can. But for my family, the true marker of summer’s end is our yearly escape to Lyme Regis.

It’s a ritual stitched into memory: a few quiet days by the sea to honour my father’s passing, followed by the joy of our wedding anniversary. Somehow Lyme holds space for both reflection and celebration.

Why Lyme? Because it’s magic. A relaxed, timeless town that feels like a hidden jewel on England’s coast. Even under grey UK skies, Lyme glimmers. Late August here also means one thing: Lyme Folk Weekend. This year we had the absolute joy of hearing Turin Brakes and Ninebarrow & Friends at the Marine Theatre—a night of pure soul. By day, the town hums with Morris dancers on the seafront and music spilling into the streets. And of course, no trip is complete without indulgence:
- Galley Café – legendary cakes, coffee, and breakfasts with service to match.
- Blue Lias Gallery & Coombe Street Gallery – local ceramics and gifts.
- Paper Bird – stationery heaven.
- Mill Side – a cosy hub of shops, cafés, and even a microbrewery.
Add fossil hunting on the Jurassic Coast, fish and chips in a pub, and a catch-up with friends in Devon and Exeter, and the days slip by too fast. Lyme Regis never fails to bring out the child in us—and that’s exactly why we’ll keep coming back.
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Rediscovering Joy: Use Your Good Plates Today

14th May 2025

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The Good Plates, the Forgotten Dresses, and a Whole Chicken

Growing up, my mother kept a glass cabinet filled with delicate glassware and beautiful ceramic dishes — the kind that only saw daylight when we had guests for lunch or dinner. “These are the good plates,” she’d say. “We shouldn’t use them every day or they might get chipped.” It was a rule steeped in love, caution, and perhaps a hint of old-school hospitality.

I inherited that ritual without question. Over the years, my own “good plates” multiplied: not just in the kitchen, but in my closet and dresser drawers too. The best dresses, elegant earrings, heirloom jewellery — all patiently waiting their turn for a birthday, a wedding, or a big night out. But many of those occasions never came. Instead, those precious items migrated to the backs of cupboards and closets, forgotten like unopened gifts from a party long gone.

Then came COVID — long days at home in loungewear, and one very humbling moment of reconnection with my stuff. A pasta machine I had never used. A halter neck top I was never going to wear. A blush I’d never opened. Shell earrings from someone I couldn’t even remember. My own little archaeological dig into the life I thought I was saving things for.

So I Marie Kondo-ed. But it wasn’t really about decluttering — it was about rediscovering joy in what I already owned. I made a promise: if I was going to keep something, it had to be used. Because otherwise, it wasn’t just a waste of money — it was a loss of joy, beauty, and intention.

This shift in mindset even changed how I cook. Take a whole chicken, for instance. I roast it — yes — but then the leftovers go into salads, soups, or sandwiches. I boil the bones into a rich broth with peppercorns, bay leaves, cloves, and spices. That broth? It becomes the base of risottos, curries, and sauces. If a bird gave its life for my table, the least I can do is make it count.

Whether it’s a chicken or a chiffon dress, I’ve learned that saving things “for later” often means losing the chance to enjoy them at all. So use the good plates. Light the fancy candle. Wear the earrings. Open the blush. Let’s not wait for joy to arrive — let’s invite it in today.

Studio and artwork

Artweeks at Stanton St. John

May marks a special time of year — Oxfordshire Artweeks — and this year was no exception. A heartfelt thank you to Rowan, owner of the Village Shop in Stanton St. John, for hosting in such an idyllic and truly beautiful Oxfordshire setting.

Here’s a little snapshot of the shop window display — always a joy to create, even if the biggest puzzle each year is figuring out how to set it all up! It’s a challenge I love.

A big thank you to everyone who came along, showed their support, and took the time to enjoy the display.

Open Art Spaces at Portobello Road

It’s been a busy May! Not long after the start of Artweeks, I made my way to Portobello Road for the Saturday market at Open Art Spaces in Tavistock Piazza. It was a warm, vibrant day, full of the usual buzz from tourists and locals alike.

I had some wonderful conversations with complete strangers and met people from Spain, the Caribbean, and Sweden — a true mix of cultures and stories.

It’s a long solo journey, hauling a couple of heavy suitcases, but absolutely worth it when people stop, engage, and appreciate the stall. I’ll definitely be back… once I’ve recovered!

Finches

In the hedgerows, woodlands, and quiet garden corners of Britain, a symphony of colour and song unfolds — the finches. The chaffinch, with its rosy chest and bold white wing bars, sings a descending trill that rings through spring. Nearby, the goldfinch dazzles in gold and scarlet, a delicate acrobat among thistles and teasels. The greenfinch, more subdued but no less striking, flashes lime-green plumage as it flutters from feeder to hedge.

Rarer and more secretive, the bullfinch carries a blush-pink chest and a mournful, soft whistle — a bird of hushed woodlands and blossoming orchards. Then comes the hawfinch, the elusive giant of the finch family, with a powerful beak strong enough to crack cherry stones. Most curious of all is the common crossbill, its criss-crossed bill a marvel of adaptation, prying open pine cones in coniferous forests.

Together, these birds weave a story of resilience, beauty, and quiet complexity — a celebration of diversity in beak and feather. In the artwork that follows, they gather not in competition but in chorus, a living palette that speaks of British wildness, past and present.

Bibliophile

The House of Mirrors by Erin Kelly (Thriller ***)

Erin Kelly returns with The House of Mirrors, a slow-burning psychological thriller that explores the weight of buried secrets and the haunting pull of the past. At the heart of the story is Karen — composed, repressed, and haunted by the events of her youth — and her daughter Alice, who is unknowingly entangled in the aftermath. The appearance of anonymous notes threatens to unravel decades of silence and stability. As always, Kelly’s prose is elegant, her characters psychologically rich, and her attention to setting and atmosphere finely tuned. However, while the premise is gripping and the opening draws you in, the pacing can feel uneven. The first half simmers but doesn’t always sizzle, and some reveals land with less impact than expected. Readers looking for a high-stakes, twist-heavy thriller may find the tension a little too restrained.

Whatcha watching?!

Thunderbolts @ Curzon (****)

I am biased towards Marvel movies and Florence Pugh. And when the two come together, I can’t give it a bad review. Thunderbolts is a gritty, character-driven Marvel story that dares to ask what redemption really looks like. With a lineup of antiheroes and reformed villains, the series offers a refreshing break from traditional superhero fare. The dynamics between the team — tense, unpredictable, and often explosive — keep the stakes high and the narrative compelling. Smart writing, layered characters, and morally grey decisions make this a standout. While the pacing stumbles at times and not every arc lands perfectly, Thunderbolts delivers a bold, satisfying ride that balances action with emotional weight. A must-read for fans of darker, more complex Marvel stories.

Three hens in a boat @ Reading Rep

Three Women on a Boat sets sail with sharp wit and tender chaos, as Camille Ucan’s new play reimagines Jerome K. Jerome’s classic with a very modern twist. Ucan stars as Jay, joined by her hilariously overbearing mum and secretive gran on a hen do-turned-therapy session aboard a skiff named after the original author (with some cheeky commentary). Amid glowing pastoral scenes and lingering tensions, the trio navigate love, family, and hidden baggage—both literal and emotional. With laughs, poignancy, and even a memorable turn from Montmorency the dog, this is a river journey well worth the ride.

A word about beauty..

Beauty isn’t something we simply wear or possess—it’s something we awaken in each other. This poem is a tribute to those everyday moments of care that remind us we are seen, heard, and valued.
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Making Each Other Beautiful

What is beauty?
Is it the curve of a smile,
The shimmer of fabric,
The shape we carry,
Or the sound of our voice in a quiet room?

No—
Beauty is a feeling.
It stirs when you're seen,
When someone truly listens,
When you rise into your strength.

In those moments,
You glow from the inside out.
And so, the phrase
"making each other beautiful"
Becomes more than kindness—
It becomes power.

So next time you're in that chair,
And hands shape your hair,
Or paint colour into your day—
Remember:
Someone chose to make you feel radiant.
Smile. Thank them.
And in return,
Make their day beautiful too.
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Celebrating Spring: Books, Mothers, and Holi

21st Apr 2025

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Clocks, mothers, books and alas… Easter

March and April were a whirlwind of events.

World Book Day feels like an Olympic challenge in creativity, and instead of painting a picture, I’m just trying to dress up a kid! As the Peppa Pig and Gruffalo days fade, the competition gets fiercer. Disney characters and superheroes? Too easy! I still have nightmares from last year’s debacle where my child resembled a walking orange after her Oompa Loompa transformation. This year, we took a safer route: Mr. Holmes. Just a deerstalker, a pipe, some old black trousers, and a cloak. Easy peasy, no orange foundation required!

Holi, the festival of colours was in March. Celebrating a vibrant colour festival while juggling 9-5 work is like finding a clean shirt on laundry day. As a kid, there was always enough Thandai to make a swimming pool envy, and I never said no to Aloo and puri. So, in a nostalgic attempt to relive the good old days, I cooked this meal for our Goldsmith trio—because what’s better than a trip down memory lane with carbs?

Easter school holidays were a much-needed escape from the relentless demands of homework, school runs, and extra classes. Although we didn’t embark on a grand family holiday, we embraced the little joys that often slip through our fingers during term time. We found delight in making fresh strawberry lemonade, losing ourselves in books under the sun, and indulging in movie marathons. The vibrant fresh salads and delightful picnics in the garden brought us closer, as we revelled in bird watching—marvelling at the lively blue tits, starlings, and goldfinches that grace our backyard. It’s in these simple pleasures that true happiness resides. And even as the stock market crashed and the bigwigs flailed in chaos, we painted our nails and devoured the thrilling pages of Jurassic Park.

A delightful adventure to Woburn Safari Park, followed by a charming visit to Stow on the Wold, truly made our Easter weekend unforgettable! Woburn Safari Park is the perfect haven for families with young children who might grow weary from the typical walking tours—it’s an exhilarating drive-through safari that sparks excitement at every turn!

My absolute favourite snapshot from Stow on the Wold features a magnificent church door, which could very well have inspired the legendary Durin’s door from J.R.R. Tolkien’s imaginative world

What’s happening in the studio?

Chickens galore

Call it the intoxicating magic of spring, my deep-seated adoration for fresh eggs, or the exhilarating dream of nurturing my own flock of chickens in my backyard, I spent a considerable amount of free time into crafting these rural illustrations, each one dedicated to the splendid variety of chicken breeds and the vibrant wildflowers that dance in the breeze. If you share a passion for gardening or a love for nature, see if you can unveil the beauty of the nigella and hyssop hidden within.

Whispers in the Wind: The Starlings’ Ballet

Enchanted by these dazzling visitors (starlings) in my backyard, I poured my heart into illustrating them—capturing their radiant, luminescent colours as they danced in the light, framed by the vibrant blooms of seasonal nasturtiums and towering hollyhocks. Those twelve hours at my desk over Easter bank holiday Monday were pure magic—an unforgettable burst of creative joy.

Bibliophile

The Ghost by Robert Harris ( Thriller ****)

Ghostwriting ignited a spark of curiosity within me when I delved into Robert Harris’s brilliant masterpiece, not to mention the thrilling motion picture adaptation featuring our beloved Pierce Brosnan, known for his role as 007. Harris’s exceptional talent for crafting stories with such perfect pacing, intricate plots, and deeply developed characters shines brilliantly in this electrifying thriller. The Ghost masterfully chronicles the dramatic fall of a charismatic former Labour prime minister whose dazzling political career is torn apart due to his close ties with some of the most morally troubling decisions made in the name of the War on Terror. This narrative undoubtedly provides an unsettling reading experience for Tony Blair, as it forces a confrontation with the ghosts of past actions.

Precipice by Robert Harris (Thriller ****)

Robert Harris’s 16th novel, Precipice, explores the affair between Prime Minister Herbert Henry Asquith and aristocrat Venetia Stanley during the lead-up to World War I. The story follows their perspectives alongside Special Constable Paul Deemer, who investigates mysterious classified telegrams scattered across the countryside, which Asquith has been throwing from his car to impress Stanley, revealing a surprising collection of love declarations. This casual disregard for national security is shocking but real—and perfect for fiction. Precipice is rich in fascinating details and fun facts (like Edwardian London’s 12 daily mail deliveries). The story of Britain’s lead-up to war is gripping, featuring Churchill, Lloyd George, and a colorful cast with quirky nicknames like “Bongie” and “Puffin.” It’s a smart look at the selfish, careless lives of the Edwardian elite.

Shroud by Adrian Tchaikovsky (Sci-fi Horror ***)

Shroud is a compelling narrative by Adrian Tchaikovsky, featuring a crew of corporate planet strippers who discover a mysterious moon called Shroud. Despite its hostility to humans, the crew aims to exploit its resources but ends up crash-landing on the moon, where they are pursued by a dominant alien life form. Juna Ceelander and Mai Set Etienne must utilise their resourcefulness to survive as they navigate the challenges posed by the inhospitable environment and the interests of the alien species tracking them.

@Movies

Mickey 17 @Vue Cinemas

Starring Robert Pattinson (Mickey), Naomi Ackie (Nasha), Steven Yeun (Timo), Mark Ruffalo (Kenneth Marshall), and Toni Collette (Ylfa), Mickey 17 is a bold creation from the fearless Bong Joon Ho. In this gripping tale, Mickey voluntarily becomes an Expendable within a micro society ruled by the tyrant Kenneth Marshall and his wife Ylfa. The film chronicles Mickey’s formidable challenges as he experiences multiple deaths, only to be reborn from the cloning machine, while remaining steadfastly in love with Nasha. As the human clone and subject of experimentation, Mickey endures trials for medicinal research, investigates the dangers of the alien planet, and even evaluates the food destined for their cadets. This film is a must-see, showcasing powerful performances, a quirky storyline, and Mark Ruffalo’s captivating false dentures and body language that chillingly mimic the modern-day dictator.

Adolescence @Netflix

I don’t think I can write a better review for this TV series than what Indian television journalist and author, Barkha Dutt has written.

“I started Adolescence with dread and reluctance. I am a binge watcher of British procedural drama so already knew how much more superior it is to anything coming out of Hollywood. But did I really want to watch a series about a child accused of murder ? It sounded too bleak. And bleak it is, in the most gut wrenching, visceral way, it holds a mirror up to all we have become and are in danger of losing.

These lives we live tethered to our phones, the crazy unreal worlds we live online and thus in our head, the cruelty of children, the loneliness of children, the burden of parenting, the desperate need for approval from your parents, the sickening peer pressure of Instagram and its inherent fake aspirations ( irony alert), the way men see women and boys see girls, but also the confusion with which boys and men see themselves and the hyper sexualised ways in which girls and women see themselves. Adolescence is not just for parents. It’s for anyone who has felt lonely, inadequate, felt bullied or become a version of themselves they don’t recognise. It is a call to us to put our phones aside at least a few hours a day if not more. It’s about family and community and broken bonds. It’s about love. Damaged, but held together by tape and hope.

I watched it in a single sitting, awake till four am, unable to stop crying – how fragile we are indeed .”

Flute concert at SJE arts

My family has always been deeply passionate about Indian classical music. Growing up in the Gupta household, the enchanting melodies of maestros like Pt. Ravi Shankar, Ustaad Zakhir Hussain, and Pt. Hariprasad Chaurasia filled our lives with joy and reverence. So when I discovered that Rakesh Chaurasia, Pt. HC’s talented nephew, was set to perform at St. John’s Evangelist in Oxford, I knew I simply could not let this opportunity slip away. It was an unforgettable evening, bursting with nostalgia and emotion. The ethereal sound of the flute, harmonizing with the rhythmic tabla, conjured up a treasure trove of cherished memories, and I couldn’t help but shed a few tears—both of joy and bittersweet longing.

The Residence @Netflix

The Residence is an exhilarating whodunnit crafted by the brilliant Paul William Davies, who collaborated with the iconic Shonda Rhimes on the legendary Scandal. Starring the phenomenally unique Uzo Aduba, she radiates joy, clearly relishing every moment, much like the captivated audience surrounding her. This series is an absolute delight – addictive, binge-worthy, and a true breath of fresh air. While it may not be the kind of television that will revolutionise the world, it promises eight hours of pure, thrilling escape that you won’t want to miss!

Pygmalion @Oxford Playhouse

Set in early 20th century London, Pygmalion follows Cockney flower girl Eliza Doolittle, who aspires for a better life through the lessons of Professor Henry Higgins, an arrogant linguist. As they navigate the complexities of identity and self-worth, the play critiques the British class system with wit and humour. Known for inspiring My Fair Lady, this production by Oxford Theatre Guild brings new life to Shaw’s work, emphasizing themes of self-discovery and the power of words, promising a memorable experience for contemporary audiences.

The Penguin Lessons @Vue Cinemas

If Steve Coogan’s in it, I’m watching—critics be damned. Based on the bestselling memoir by former teacher Tom Michell, this quirky, heartwarming true story follows a lonely man who rescues a penguin from an oil slick while on holiday in Uruguay. Set in 1970s Argentina during the junta, Coogan plays Tom, an English teacher navigating life at a stuffy private school for wealthy expats. The penguin—named Juan Salvador—becomes his unlikely companion, offering comfort, chaos, and unexpected redemption. With Jonathan Pryce as the overbearing headmaster, the film blends warmth, wit, and quiet political undertones into something truly special. Count me in.

A note for my mother

The last Sunday of March was Mothering Sunday and for my cherished mother, I offer my heartfelt words.
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Does Mother Know Me This Morning?

Does mother know me this morning,
The little girl she once carried
To doctors with tearful pleas—
For peas in my nose, for coughs and cuts,
Her hands, steady and warm,
Fixing the world with just her touch.

Does she remember the heat-soaked days,
Powerless but full of mango-tree dreams?
Nights wrapped in her love,
Her hand fanning the thick, heavy air—
A tender breeze,
A mother’s quiet electricity.

Does she remember the dresses I begged for,
Her fingers dancing over fabric,
As I turned the sewing machine’s wheel—
The hum a promise
That magic could be made
From thread and care.

Now her arms are frail, her voice in fragments,
Yet I search for her in every glance.
And when I’m lucky, a smile—
Sometimes, my name.
Each morning I rise with the same hope:
Will she know me today?
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PS – My beloved mother, though battling Alzheimer’s, resides serenely in a world of her own, untouched by the chaos that surrounds us. Her existence is a quiet testament to the beauty of peace, as she drifts blissfully through life, oblivious to the turmoil that might trouble others.
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The importance of your gut

12th Mar 2025

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Listening to your gut

Have you ever found yourself in circumstances where an inner voice warns you that something is amiss, yet you proceed regardless? Often referred to as a gut feeling or instinct, my experiences have shown that this inner guidance frequently points toward the correct course of action. Being a woman carries significant strengths, yet it also comes with a pervasive anxiety about potential harm, vulnerability, or an overall sense of insecurity.

During my tenure at a prestigious technology consultancy, I resided in a women’s hostel, the most suitable option I could afford. One particular evening, following a demanding 14-hour work shift, I was dropped off by the office bus in proximity to my hostel, a familiar ritual of my daily routine.

I understood that I needed to wake my roommates, who would likely be displeased at having to let me in. A man on a scooter, came up behind me and seized my hand, attempting to force me onto his vehicle and possibly onto his lap. The sharp edge of fear clawed at my throat as I retaliated with every ounce of strength I had, sprinting towards the nearest house, where I knocked, shouted, and kicked until someone finally opened the door.

Fortunately, they allowed me entry, took my distress seriously, and listened with a sense of conviction. It was another women’s hostel, and in the dimly lit living room, I could sense a profound familiarity in their expressions; we had formed a sisterhood not from affection, but from our shared experiences in life.

The rationale behind sharing this narrative, rooted in a past I have never forgotten, is to convey to girls, women, and sisters that this scary situation transcends geographical boundaries; it is not confined to cultural contexts and can occur anywhere to anyone. Therefore, if you ever find yourself questioning someone’s intentions, trust your instincts.

Despite my desire for independence, I frequently succumbed to peer pressure during my youth, making choices that, in retrospect, were regrettable. In essence, do not conform simply because others do. Do not engage in relationships merely because your peers have partners and you do not. When I say, “You be you,” I do so with sincerity—this is the only pathway to your happiness and safety.

What’s happening in the studio?

Bees Knees

As the weather warms and the garden bursts forth in a riot of colors, my heart races in anticipation of the glorious season when bees will dance joyfully in my backyard. The delightful buzz of these tiny creatures mingles with the intoxicating scent of freshly cut grass, creating a symphony of summer that is impossible to ignore. Here, let me paint a vivid picture for you: bees, vibrant and alive, flitting exuberantly from one exquisite poppy flower to another, embodying the sheer joy of that enchanting time of year.

Chanticleer

I vividly recalled a family trip to the Lake District, undeniably one of the most breathtaking spots and national parks in the UK, where we resided in a charming old house perched atop a hill. Each morning, instead of being jolted awake by an alarm, we were greeted by the enchanting sound of a cockadoodledoo singing outside our bedroom window. The house’s owner proudly kept chickens, among them a magnificent rooster that was the heart of our mornings. Hence, a picture from that trip—a proud rooster with cascading hops in the background. Hops (in case you don’t know), those stunning cone-shaped flowers of the Humulus lupulus plant, serve a vital purpose in the art of brewing, infusing beers with their delightful bitterness, aroma, and flavour.

Bibliophile

I have some questions .. by Rebecca Makkai ****

To say this is merely a thriller would be a grave understatement. If you’ve ever reflected on the myriad experiences you’ve endured while growing up, convinced they were ‘normal’, this book fearlessly flings open those long-shut doors, demanding the piercing question: ‘Why is it okay?’. This is the essence of the #MeToo movement, confronting uncomfortable truths, shattering societal norms, and challenging cancel culture in a compelling narrative. Bodie, a captivating podcaster, remains haunted by her years in a boarding school where her roommate Thalia was tragically murdered. Those haunting memories linger, and when she returns to the school, now as a teacher for just two weeks, she’s inexorably drawn back into the chilling mystery of who truly killed Thalia. I might be underselling it by likening it to a mere whodunnit, but believe me, it transcends that—it’s a tapestry woven with complexity, richness, and depth. If you’re yearning to transform your perspective, this book is nothing short of your Holy Grail.

Some Desperate Glory by Emily Tesh (Sci – fi) ****

Some Desperate Glory is a gripping tale set in the haunting aftermath of a war that left humanity in ruins, costing them their very Earth and paving the way for a ruthless fascist terrorist cell bent on vengeance. Yet, at its heart, this story delves deeply into the harrowing power of indoctrination and the staggering lengths to which individuals will go to cling to the false security it offers: a sense of safety, a compelling purpose, a profound meaning in life, the desperate need to feel valued, to be wanted, to belong, and to embrace a mission that transcends the self. Uniquely, the transformative journey of the young hero(ine), Valkyr, shatters her once-unshakeable beliefs, propelling her toward the core of her moral compass in a desperate struggle for survival. This is science fiction, yes, but its resonance with our contemporary world is striking and undeniable.

Whatcha watching

The Critic (Amazon Prime) ***

Jimmy Erskine (Ian McKellen) is a harsh theatre critic in 1930s London, known for his brutality. When the new owner of the Daily Chronicle threatens his job, he reacts with the ferocity of a trapped honey badger. His plans affect a vulnerable starlet (Gemma Arterton), a lovesick journalist (Mark Strong), and even his live-in “secretary,” Tom (Alfred Enoch), who all become victims of his ruthless tactics.

Bridget Jones – Mad about the boy (Vue) ****

A Friday evening out with girlfriends, after a gruelling workweek, is the perfect backdrop for this heartfelt rom-com! It’s Bridget’s fourth adventure and she’s now a single mother of two, having tragically lost her Mr. Darcy in a bomb explosion in Sudan. She’s navigating the tumultuous waters of life, motherhood, and grief, visibly weary yet undeniably authentic—tired, sleepless, sad, and at times, exuberantly happy. That rawness is what makes this film so powerful! Someone quipped, “oh she’s too old,” but I say if we don’t criticize men for their age on screen, we must extend that courtesy to women too! Bridget Jones’ movies evoke laughter and tears in equal measure, reminding us all that you don’t have to look like a million dollars to be a princess in your own right.

The Seagull (Barbican) ****

The play starts with Zachary Hart (The Constituent, Old Vic) who plays the besotted Simon Medvedenko, arriving onstage on a quad bike with a guitar and performs Billy Bragg‘s The Milkman Of Human Kindness. Staging Chekhov is always a challenge for any director however, this adaptation is truly steered by Cate Blanchett’s Arkadina, who is over the top, self obsessed to the point that she ridicules her own son and his efforts at playwrighting. She’s supported by a sturdy crew of Tom Burke as Trigorin, Emma Corrin as Nina and Jason Watkins as Sorin and the rest. And no it’s not a cheerful play, Chekhov never is.

The Importance of Being Earnest (NT Live at Curzon) ****

Max Webster’s sumptuous period dress production ignites this vibrant tale of Algernon (Ncuti Gatwa, flamboyance personified), Jack (Hugh Skinner, comically vulnerable), and their thrilling secret identities, steeped in queer doubleness. This exhilarating production brims with delightful mischief, drawing inspiration from Bridgerton’s visual grandeur while peppering in playful pop references—from the infectious musical strains of Snoop Dogg to nods to the beloved queer London club, Dalston Superstore. Yet, amidst its cheeky awareness, it masterfully balances fidelity to Wilde’s text with a spirited 21st-century playfulness. The upper-class characters exude the charm of naughty children run amok, from the endearing, awkward romance between Reverend Canon Chasuble (Richard Cant) and the exquisitely brilliant Miss Prism (Amanda Lawrence) to Algernon and Jack, who skip hand in hand or bicker over muffins like posh, overgrown schoolboys.

Challengers (Prime Video) ***

If this movie could be summed up with a few powerful keywords, they would unmistakably be tennis and rivalry. Art and Patrick, who rise together in the tennis hall from their Junior days, are captivated by the dazzling Tashi Duncan, portrayed by Zendaya, a champion whose star power is undeniable. Tashi enters into relationships with both men but ultimately chooses to marry Art. However, the plot thickens in a gripping tournament called Challengers, where her ex-lover and her husband face off as fierce competitors across the net.

March ahead & don’t try too hard

Changing schools and starting afresh is an immense challenge for young hearts. I felt this deeply in my own childhood as my father moved cities for work, but I truly witnessed its weight through my daughter last year. The struggle to ‘hold on’ to old friendships is a battle of its own. We’ve endured countless nights filled with self-doubt, questioning our worth, wrestling with anger and frustration, only to seek solace in relaxation and tubs of vanilla ice cream.

Yet, there’s one truth that drives me: if something isn’t worth your time, let it go. I don’t mean the significant milestones like a college education or a job; rather, I’m talking about the effort we pour into people who simply don’t reciprocate. Investing your energy in those who will never give you their time or attention is a precious opportunity lost, one that could have been spent nurturing relationships that truly matter.

In the end, what really matters is..

A close friend’s aunt, devoid of children of her own, now faces the harrowing reality of terminal cancer, yet she is embraced by the warmth of her nephews and nieces who have gathered around her, ensuring she feels utterly loved and cared for. When I heard that, I thought – how beautifully poignant is that?! Throughout our adult lives, we toil endlessly, scrimping and saving, crafting bucket lists, competing with one another, enduring long hours and sleepless nights. But when we reach the twilight of this journey called life, nothing cuts deeper than the sorrow of solitude. To grow old and feel neglected is an anguish no one should bear. While the future remains uncertain and beyond our grasp, investing in moments with those we love always pays dividends that transcend any material pursuit.
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Embracing Love in Challenging Times

17th Feb 2025

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For the love born out of trauma

I’ll kick things off with a little nugget from ‘Fourteen Days’. This isn’t the brainchild of just one author, but a brilliant mashup of literary minds, all curated by the fabulous Margaret Atwood—talk about a literary potluck! So, there’s this couple who decide to adopt a pet rabbit, and thinking it’d be a rather furry love story, they go ahead and get a second rabbit to keep the first one company.

Spoiler alert: it’s more like a rabbit version of “Survivor” as they bicker more than an old married couple. The couple, practically pulling their hair out, turns to a psychologist for help. And what’s the grand advice? To shove both bunnies in a box with no windows and roll it around like it’s a game of rabbit roulette for 15 minutes each day! They’re torn between their moral compass and sheer desperation, and guess what? They take that advice to heart—tale as old as time, right?

In a week’s time, the two rabbits have become such harmonious roommates that you’d think they were plotting a cute rabbit reality show. Now, before anyone starts calling the rabbit police, let me clarify: this is purely fictional, and no actual bunnies were harmed in the making of this tale. Seriously, folks, don’t try this with your pets who are as mischievous as a cat at a laser pointer convention! But the real kicker here is that, just like our fluffy friends, we humans also tend to band together and shine our finest selves in the face of shared chaos—it’s the unspoken bond that turns tragedy into a quirky group hug!

More love, less hate

February heralds the marketing-heavy, social media-enhanced celebration of Valentine’s Day, a time that can stir mixed emotions for many. I recall some of the most confusing moments of my youth coinciding with this date, and I want to acknowledge that it’s completely normal to feel that way.

For anyone who resonates with these feelings, remember this: you matter deeply, and your worth is equal to every other person on this planet. Love transcends Valentine’s Day outings and presents; it’s a much more intricate tapestry of actions and emotions, as I’ve gleaned from Shakespeare’s works.

I cannot stress enough, especially to the younger versions of ourselves, that peer pressure plays a significant role in leading to poor decisions, as we often envy the lives we see others portray. It’s crucial to remember that what you see on social media doesn’t reflect reality. So if you ever thought JLo looks that flawless all the time, you might want to reconsider; even she has her moments!

And last but certainly not least, we definitely need more love, more tolerance, and more care in this chaotic world of ours—especially now!

In the studio

Aviary of tits (birds)

The captivating tits, delightful chickadees, and charming titmice unite to form the enchanting family of Paridae, small passerine birds that flutter through the Northern Hemisphere and Africa, bringing joy to all who behold them. My beloved aviary, featuring the stunning bearded tit, whimsical long-tailed tit, elegant crested tit, quirky penduline tit, striking blue tit, and charming marsh tit, is transformed into a vibrant masterpiece with Himi gel gouache, vibrant Caran d’ache gouache palettes, and a glossy finish on luxurious watercolour paper. Additionally, enjoy the forsythia, apple blossoms, tulips, and honeysuckle, evoking the essence of awakening spring.

Dove-tales

Pigeons and doves are such familiar sights that we often overlook their stunning beauty and presence in nature. While it’s true that the larger birds may dominate my bird feeder, the charming dove is truly a delight. Picture an urban garden adorned with the graceful turtle dove, the elegant collared dove, and the lovely stock dove, all set against a backdrop of vibrant gardenia shrubs and lively pineapple weed. I’ve once again embraced Himi gel gouache and a glossy medium on watercolor paper to capture this joyful scene.

Bibliophile

Kill for me, Kill for you by Steve Cavanagh ***

A gripping psychological thriller set in New York City, focusing on two women, Amanda and Wendy, who form a dangerous pact of revenge. Through shared experiences of loneliness and a desire for vengeance against the men who hurt them, they agree to kill for each other, leading to a chilling and immersive narrative that captivates readers in a single day.

The Echo Man by Sam Holland ***

The Echo Man, by Sam Holland, is the first book in the Major Crimes series, featuring Jess Ambrose, a housewife who becomes the prime suspect in a series of brutal murders mimicking infamous serial killers after her husband dies in a house fire. As she flees, she enlists the help of disgraced detective Nate Griffin, who seeks to prove her innocence and connect her husband’s death to a sadistic killer, making the novel a gripping thriller of the year.

The Society of Lies by Lauren Ling Brown **

The story follows sisters Maya and Naomi, who gain admission to Princeton College despite their unprivileged backgrounds. They navigate friendships and identities while encountering the intrigue of the Sterling Club, an ‘eating society,’ which involves murder. Although some writing aspects are appreciated, the pacing feels slow at times, yet the book may still appeal to some readers.

Daisy Darker by Alice Feeney ***

The story revolves around the Darker family, particularly their youngest daughter Daisy, who suffers from a congenital heart disease. Set in Cornwall, the family includes divorced parents Mr. and Mrs. Darker and their three daughters—Rose, Lily, and Daisy. The narrative, told from Daisy’s perspective, explores themes of dysfunction, rivalry, secrets, and heartbreak, all while showcasing Feeney’s captivating writing style.

Fourteen Days – Margaret Atwood/ Douglas Preston (edited by) ****

One week into lockdown, the tenants of a Manhattan apartment building have ignited a spark of camaraderie, gathering on the rooftop each evening to weave their stories in this captivating new twist on the novel. With each night that passes, a vibrant tapestry of neighbours assembles, bringing chairs, milk crates, and overturned buckets, their laughter echoing into the twilight. Gradually, the tenants – many of whom held their tongues before – blossom into true neighbours, forging powerful connections. Each character, crafted by a different, illustrious literary voice—from Margaret Atwood to John Grisham and Celeste Ng—makes Fourteen Days an exhilarating, heartwarming tribute to the transformative power of storytelling and the unbreakable bonds of human connection.

The Butcher Game by Alaina Urquhart ***

In this sequel to The Butcher and the Wren, Dr. Wren continues her pursuit of the Bayou Butcher, Jeremy Rose, while grappling with her past traumas. As he retreats north in search of safety, he plots revenge against Wren, the only victim to have escaped him before, vowing to force her to follow his perverse rules.

The Trial by Rob Rinder **

This courtroom drama centers on convicted criminal Jimmy Knight, who is on trial for murdering a police officer and national superhero DI Grant Cliveden. Adam, a junior at Stag Court, becomes a crucial member of the defense team, as the case draws significant media attention. The gripping story is available for 99p on Kindle.

On the screen

Juror #2 (Amazon Prime) ***

Directed by Clint Eastwood and featuring Nicholas Hoult as Justin, this engaging courtroom drama offers a thoughtful exploration of its lead characters. In a dramatic night-time rainstorm, Justin encounters what he initially thinks is a deer but soon discovers is a woman walking home after a heated argument with her boyfriend, the accused. Before you can say “Objection!”, Justin is researching “vehicular homicide” and reaching out to his lawyer friend (Kiefer Sutherland) who candidly advises him (“You’re in for a challenge!”). Determined to guide his fellow jurors towards a fair verdict, he seeks to navigate the situation with integrity. Despite the mixed reviews, I believe that every artistic endeavour deserves appreciation because, let’s be honest, it takes a dedicated team to bring a vision to life on stage or screen.

The Brutalist (Curzon cinemas) ****

Brady Corbet’s remarkable and captivating epic, The Brutalist, boldly explores the design of postwar America and the elements woven into its foundations during the building stage. It challenges us to confront the brutalism of the title and its implications beyond architecture, while contemplating the inevitable decline of our youthful aspirations. The film tackles antisemitism and the capitalist adventure, delves into the unassimilated immigrant experience, and contrasts American can-do naivety with the profound, often painful, depths of European culture and expertise. Adrian Brody, Felicity Jones, and Guy Pearce deliver stellar performances as the brooding, talented Hungarian architect, his wife, and the architect’s generous patron, respectively.

Longer days

When the spring bulbs begin to emerge in my garden, it fills me with a sense of hope, reminding me that the days will soon grow longer and the refreshing embrace of spring will soon be at my doorstep. Whether you’re alone or with a loved one during this dreary winter, it’s important to remember to be kind to yourself and others. Having grown up in the tropics, I often took the warm sun for granted while yearning for the rain. Now, while I may not yearn for rain in the same way, I find myself longing for the brighter days, the warmth of the sun, and the vibrant colours that fade away in the shadows of black and grey.

To end, here’s a treasure from A. A Milne

Daffodowndilly

She wore her yellow sun-bonnet,
She wore her greenest gown;
She turned to the south wind
And curtsied up and down.
She turned to the sunlight
And shook her yellow head,
And whispered to her neighbour:
“Winter is dead.”
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January – here we go again

12th Jan 2025

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The year that was and a new one

In December, I nervously opened my studio for a couple of weeks, showcasing an array of merchandise and art I’ve created over the years to eager visitors. This initiative was part of Oxfordshire Artweeks, a vibrant collective for artists across the region. While attendance wasn’t as high as I anticipated, I proactively distributed around 90 leaflets to homes within a half-mile radius, consistently shared my event on Meta, and engaged in local groups, all while offering attractive pricing to clear out old stock. This experience taught me the valuable lesson that selling requires hard work. Nonetheless, the silver lining was the support from my small but loyal circle of friends who helped spread the word and purchased items from the display. Ultimately, seeing familiar and friendly faces was a bright spark in an otherwise dreary winter’s day.

And while my conservatory was filled with all of my merchandise stock, cheerful Christmas songs played on the radio all day, every day. Wherever I met people I knew, the first question they’d ask was – “Are you ready for Christmas?” It felt like they were asking – “Are you ready for the end of humanity?” Initially, I was unsure about putting up the tree this year, but to lift the spirits of my family, I decided to put up a miniature tree in the living room. Although I’m not Christian or religious and didn’t grow up celebrating Christmas, the traditions have taken on a special meaning for me as I have married into a family that cherishes this holiday.

Over the years, I’ve grown fond of it and embraced a few guiding principles this year. It’s true what they say – it’s not the gifts that matter, but the thought behind them. So I focused on giving and receiving with humility. The holiday isn’t about the grand feasts or matching pyjamas; it’s about ensuring everyone enjoys something they love, fostering joy and togetherness with the people I care about. Lastly, I reminded myself that the responsibility of making the day special is a shared adventure, not mine alone. With my managerial hat on, I created a fun task list with everyone having their part, making it an equal and joyful effort among the three of us.

A thought for the new year – When I embarked on my college journey in the early 2000s, it was my first exciting adventure into independent living, away from the comforting embrace of my parents. One valuable piece of advice my mother shared with me was to trust my gut instincts. I have embraced this guidance wholeheartedly throughout my life, and it has brought me countless benefits. With that positive motto in mind, I look forward to keeping an open mind, discerning the truth in the vast information online, applying critical thinking, and staying grounded in reality over fiction in this new year.

What is happening in the studio?

Leftover pet portraits

While I happily take on requests from friends and family to create portraits, I find that it often takes me a little while to get to them. However, with everything else in my life moving at a slower pace, I seized the opportunity to complete some portraits I had been eager to finish. Theia, my close friend’s beloved cat, was the first on my list, and I joyfully painted her using gouache on black watercolour paper with metallics. I even repurposed her image on delightful cards and coasters with a charming graphic background!

Ralph, an acquaintance’s daughter’s pet, was next on my to-do list. I applied a technique similar to the one I used with Theia. One crucial tip: always scan your image before adding metallics, as the scanner tends to struggle with reflective surfaces.

Florals on metals

There are so many of us who find joy in creating beautiful floral designs! Here are some delightful florals I joyfully crafted during the holiday downtime. (Just a little note – my downtime isn’t from painting; it’s from social media and the 9 to 5 job that supports my passion). You’ll be thrilled to see the abundance of Irises, including the Bearded Iris, Siberian Iris, and Japanese water Iris. This is a special shoutout to a close friend who adores these flowers, and I hope this brings her some warm hugs and cheer!

Movies and Theatre

Conclave (Drama)

Ralph Fiennes truly excels as Cardinal Lawrence, the esteemed dean of the college of cardinals, a distinguished position that places him just behind the pope in Vatican hierarchy. Following the unexpected passing of the pontiff, Lawrence eagerly takes on the exciting challenge of guiding the conclave – bringing together all the cardinals of the Catholic Church to elect a new pope. The brilliance of Fiennes’s performance shines through in his ability to express profound emotion with subtlety. His exceptional portrayal is wonderfully complemented by a remarkable supporting cast, including Isabella Rossellini, Stanley Tucci, Lucian Msamati, John Lithgow, and Sergio Castellitto, among others. This is a performance that is definitely deserving of an Oscar nomination!

Midsummer Night’s Dream at the Barbican

The word love is beautifully woven throughout this play, celebrating all its forms—unrequited, passionate, and even a touch mischievous. Thanks to the GCSE syllabus and its engaging title, A Midsummer Night’s Dream has become one of the most beloved Shakespeare plays. This rendition vibrantly feels alive, brought to life by Helen Monks’s delightful portrayal of Rita (originally Peter) Quince, alongside Boadicea Ricketts’ bold and enchanting Helena. Bally Gill’s dynamic performances as Athenian Duke Theseus and faery king Oberon—paired with Sirine Saba’s lively Hippolyta and faery queen Titania—suggest that the enchanting scenes in the woods are the magical aftermath of a grand Greek pre-wedding celebration. In this interpretation, the playful elf Puck—energetically and musically portrayed by Premi Tamang, embodies a delightful fusion of daughters, lovers, and childhood fairytales.

Bill Bailey’s Thoughtifier

Musical instruments, delightful songs, joyous laughter, and a bit of dancing – all beautifully wrapped up in an enchanting evening’s show by the maestro Bill Bailey. There’s nothing quite as uplifting in the theatre right now as Bill Bailey’s Thoughtifier. This was an especially wonderful outing, as it was a lovely birthday gift from a dear friend who generously offered to babysit. I can’t wait to find a way to repay her kindness in equal measure!

An old story and Mr Keats

There’s a captivating short story titled Copper Beeches, written by the legendary Arthur Conan Doyle featuring Mr Holmes. It tells the tale of a woman named Violet, who seeks Mr. Holmes’ wise advice about an intriguing employment offer from a man with some unusual terms that involve her chestnut hair being cut and her wearing a blue dress while sitting on a window sill. While this was published in 1892, a time before the suffragette movement, it’s an inspiring reminder for women today. Trust your instincts, and if something doesn’t feel right, that’s your cue to explore other wonderful opportunities. Safety and happiness should always come first!

And last but not the least, a Keats poem that I have always loved. “In drear nighted December” by John Keats is a profound early work of the English Romantic poet. Keats likens nature to the human heart; while frozen trees and waters are fortunate to forget life’s warmth, the human heart is burdened, clinging to painful memories of joy and love. Written in December 1817, when Keats was just 22, this poignant poem never saw publication during his lifetime and was only printed in The Literary Gazette in 1829, eight years after his death.
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In drear nighted December,
Too happy, happy tree,
Thy branches ne’er remember
Their green felicity —
The north cannot undo them
With a sleety whistle through them
Nor frozen thawings glue them
From budding at the prime.

In drear nighted December,
Too happy, happy brook,
Thy bubblings ne’er remember
Apollo’s summer look;
But with a sweet forgetting,
They stay their crystal fretting,
Never, never petting
About the frozen time.

Ah! would ’twere with so many
A gentle girl and boy —
But were there ever any
Writh’d not of passing joy?
The feel of not to feel it,
Where there is none to heal it
Nor numbed sense to steel it,
Was never said in rhyme.
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Feeling one-sided and then festive

10th Dec 2024

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Reply only friendships and festive – all in one go!

The flight of a near-teenager from primary school to secondary has wreaked havoc on the family dynamics—I’m starting to feel like I’m reliving my own teenage years, only this time without the awkward haircuts and questionable fashion choices. It’s as if I’m enrolled in a course titled “Parenting 101: The Teenager Edition,” minus the classroom! I find myself juggling everything from monitoring assignments and projects to deciphering the hidden meanings behind a teacher’s email. Not to mention the joy of remembering which day calls for a “different” dress code, helping with test prep that feels like training for the Olympics, and introducing her to the revolutionary world of flashcards. And when it comes down to writing the next edition of the newsletter or ensuring my teenager doesn’t turn into a homework ghost, well, let’s just say the teenager wins that round—I mean, who needs a newsletter when you can have a well-rounded kiddo, right?

With the festive season gearing up, my shopping list has officially reached epic proportions—seriously, it feels like I’m preparing for a clearance sale at a never-ending store! And let’s talk about consumerism: it’s like I’ve entered a bizarre game show where wanting something trumps needing it, and logic has packed its bags and gone on vacation. This year, however, I discovered the delightful sensation of friendship fatigue, as I’ve been putting in more effort reaching out to friends than a dog chasing its tail. Apparently, I’m surrounded by what we internet folks call ROFs (reply-only friends)—you know, the ones who text back slower than glaciers melt!

Once again, a big shoutout to my psychologist friend! She says it boils down to one of three things: either your friend thinks your gestures are as important as yesterday’s cat meme, or you accidentally signed up to be their social butterfly by always initiating, or maybe they’re just swamped with life and you’re at the bottom of their to-do list, right next to sorting the sock drawer. Personally, I’m all about my squad; they’re my secret sauce for thriving in this wacky world. But let’s be real, those one-sided friendships can really hit you where it hurts! So here’s to this festive season filled with love and everlasting friendships—hopefully with a little more reciprocation than my last birthday party!

From the studio

A glimpse of paradise

What does paradise look like? To me, it is a vibrant explosion of colour, a breathtaking display of beauty under the radiant sun, teeming with laughter from friends and overflowing with the freshest, most delectable food imaginable. Inspired by the planetary embodiment of this idyllic haven, the two illustrations below showcase the magnificent Channel-billed Toucan and the lively Sun Conure—both proud denizens of South America—nestled among an enchanting array of tiger lilies, ginger lilies, heliconias, hibiscus flowers, zesty lemons, and cheerful chrysanthemums.

Sleep

Sleep – that precious jewel we all eagerly seek, a serene sanctuary that refreshes our spirits! It rejuvenates our weary minds and bodies, transporting us from the challenges of reality and offering a delightful reset for our very essence. Here, I am excited to share three enchanting illustrations in this magical series, featuring our beloved wild rabbit and the wonderful fox—the former, a cherished companion for countless hearts, whether as an adorable plush friend, a lively pet, or simply a delightful sight to behold, and the latter, a character celebrated in numerous tales, renowned for its cleverness and charm. And last but not the least, the spotted deer – gentle, beautiful, and full of grace!

And the sleepy dormouse, evoking the enchanting tea party from our cherished childhood book, brings a sense of joy and whimsy to our memories.

More Olympians – Poseidon

Known for his fierce temper and symbolised by the powerful trident, Poseidon reigns as the magnificent Greek God of the sea. His Roman counterpart, Neptune, evokes the same awe. Revered as the “Earth-shaker,” Poseidon wields the ability to conjure earthquakes with a mere strike of his trident upon the ground.

He graces the pages of Homer’s epic masterpieces, The Iliad and The Odyssey, showcasing his grandeur. For this illustration, the enchanting shells are inspired by stunning photographs from a delightful book I discovered in Lyme Regis. If you can spot them, you’ll find a mesmerising mix of wentletrap, waved whelk, turban top, and sting winkle shells, each telling their own captivating story.

Entertainment

Money Talks at the Ashmolean (Exhibition)

An exhibition about Money may appear enigmatic at first, but delve deeper and you’ll uncover a fascinating history filled with drama and art. From ancient Roman coins featuring the likes of Nero and Vitellius, to the short-lived appearance of Edward VIII’s face on coins following his abdication, to the omnipresent image of Queen Elizabeth II on various currencies worldwide, and even to the modern innovations of cryptocurrency and NFTs. Money, it seems, has always been a canvas for power, legacy, and change. This exhibition is a carefully crafted showcase that is bound to leave you mesmerised.

Waiting for Godot – Theatre Haymarket

Ben Whishaw and Lucian Msamati embody the woefully whimsical Vladimir (Didi) and Estragon (Gogo) in Beckett’s hilariously bleak tragicomedy. Waiting for Godot is hailed as the crown jewel of existentialism, where Samuel Beckett serves up a dish of life’s futility with a side of ridiculousness. Here we have two aimless tramps, Vladimir and Estragon, idling by a lonely tree, anxiously awaiting the arrival of Mr. Godot, a mysterious figure in a world so befuddled that time and memory seem to have swapped their watches. These tramps are convinced Godot holds the key to turning their lives around, but instead, they get two quirky travellers, one tethered to the other like a bad circus act.

The Cabinet Minister at Menier Chocolate Factory

Staged in the Menier Chocolate Factory, this Victorian comedy revolves around cabinet minister Sir Julian Twombley (Nicholas Rowe), who’s been caught red-handed “accepting favours”—talk about a sticky situation! He and his extravagantly spendthrift wife, Kitty (the fabulous Nancy Carroll), seem like they’d fit right in with a Labour party knee-deep in scandal over too many “gifts” (who knew 16,000 worth of designer clothes could be a campaign contribution?). Enter the scheming siblings (Phoebe Fildes and Laurence Ubong Williams) trying to blackmail their way into high society—because why not? We’ve also got a nosy neighbour (the ever-so-keen Sara Crowe), a Scottish dowager (Dillie Keane) with all the charm of a bagpipe concert, her henpecked son (Matthew Woodyatt), and a delightful web of family shenanigans, including a will-they-won’t-they romance between Sir Julian’s debutante daughter (Rosalind Ford) and a “Victorian trustafarian” (George Blagden)—yes, that’s a thing.

Juno and the Paycock at Gielgud Theatre

Juno and the Paycock breathes life into the gritty existence of the Boyles, a family ensnared in the struggle of tenement life. Here we meet the flawed breadwinner, Jack (Mark Rylance), who chooses the comforting embrace of drink over the grind of work, leaving his fierce wife, Juno (J Smith-Cameron), to bear the weight of their livelihood. Tensions simmer as Jack chafes under Juno’s assertiveness, while she, in turn, wrestles with her frustration over their daughter, Mary (Aisling Kearns), who has foolishly quit her job, and Jack’s slothful ways. Their anxious son Johnny (Eimhin Fitzgerald Doherty) stands by nervously, until the gripping story of republican vengeance thrusts itself into their lives. Rylance dazzles with impeccable comic timing, immersing us in Jack’s charming oblivion, while Smith-Cameron’s portrayal of Juno shines brilliantly across moments of both humour and heartache. This is truly a masterpiece that demands your attention!

A Game called Malice at the Oxford Playhouse

Ian Rankin gives his spiky but likeable detective John Rebus a surname that hints at puzzles, setting the stage for an intriguing narrative. A nuanced clue in the stage play he co-wrote with Simon Reade is that Rebus faces an exciting pictorial challenge. At a delightful dinner party in affluent Edinburgh, where the art decor enhances the atmosphere, Rebus must solve a fictional crime, set as entertainment by the charming hostess Harriet, only to find a real corpse. Fans will appreciate a clever Jekyll and Hyde reference that nods to Knots and Crosses, the first Rebus book, inspired by RL Stevenson’s classic tale.

Gladiator II (Cinema)

Paul Mescal, Pedro Pascal, and Denzel Washington shine brilliantly on screen in this exciting sequel to the original blockbuster. With stunning costumes and extravagant sets that capture the full splendour of the Colosseum in Rome, this film is a captivating cinematic spectacle that you won’t want to miss. The story follows Maximus’s son (Mescal) as he grows up in Africa, facing challenges when the Roman army, led by Pedro Pascal, arrives in his village. Despite the hardships faced, his journey leads him to a new life of opportunity. Denzel W portrays an ambitious man with his sights set on the Senate, intrigued by Mescal’s gladiatorial skills, setting the stage for an inspiring adventure.

Wicked (Cinema)

Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande soar as the enchanting witches Elphaba and Glinda in this mesmerizing adaptation of the beloved musical. Erivo’s vibrant green glow captivates the audience, her powerful presence and stunning vocals leaving an indelible mark on the screen. The dazzling sets, exquisite costumes, and breathtaking special effects transport viewers to a world of magic and joy, delivering a radiant spectacle that is both exuberant and profoundly needed in this festive season.

Heretic (Cinema)

I can confidently say that once you’ve seen Hugh Grant in this new role and movie, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by his transformation from the romantic lead roles he usually plays. The plot follows two Mormon sisters on their inspiring mission to spread the word of God and foster understanding about their faith. Mr. Reed, portrayed by Grant, is a theology professor who shows genuine curiosity about their message, leading the two sisters to his doorstep. What unfolds after their first encounter with Grant is a thrilling experience filled with unexpected twists that keeps you on the edge of your seat. While it has its creepy and suspenseful moments, it ultimately delivers an exhilarating ride. If you’re a fan of horror movies, this one is definitely worth your time!

What’s streaming?

If you’re in need of some me-time, then I’d highly recommend the following series to take your mind off the real world for a bit.
- The Perfect Couple on Netflix (Thriller, Drama)
- Rivals on Disney Plus (Drama, Romance, good for Jilly Cooper fans)
- Lonely Planet on Netflix (Romance, Travel)
- Nobody wants this on Netflix (Romcom)
- Woman of the hour on Netflix (Thriller, Drama)
- Emilia Perez on Netflix (Thriller, Musical)
- Agatha All Along on Disney Plus (Gothic, Horror, for Marvel fans)
- Shetland (new series on BBC, available on iPlayer)
Witchy and Crime reads

Her Majesty’s Secret Coven by Juno Dawson

HMRC (it sounds like Juno D took an imaginative spin on the Revenue and Tax department) is a brilliant, intricate, and inclusive book. As we approach spooky season, this is the ideal read to cosy up with by a crackling fire. The government’s secret coven of witches, led by the visionary Helena Vance, has a dangerous prediction (thanks to their talented team of oracles) about the Sullied Child, who will ultimately bring about destruction and chaos as the Leviathan. Thus begins a thrilling quest for this extraordinary being. It’s not just a tale of magic but also a celebration of friendship, empowerment, and a powerful message addressing the importance of accepting the LGBTQ community as a part of our societal structure.

The Shadow Cabinet by Juno Dawson

I simply couldn’t resist diving into the exhilarating sequel to Her Majesty’s …, and I attribute my fervour to Juno Dawson’s captivating storyline, her spellbinding depiction of the witchy sisterhood, and the jaw-dropping plot twists that propel you onward until the final page. This sequel is nothing short of a revelation, thrusting the coven into an electrifying new realm filled with formidable challenges—a desperate quest for a new High Priestess, intense scrutiny from the Prime Minister, the resurgence of relentless witch hunters determined to dismantle the coven, and a wicked warlock lurking in the shadows, to name just a few!

The Book of Eve by Meg Clothier

Based on the enigmatic Voynich Manuscript that has captivated and perplexed scholars for centuries, Meg Clothier masterfully crafts a dark and exquisitely atmospheric feminist tale that I simply couldn’t put down! Narrated through the compelling voice of Sister Beatrice, a devoted nun and librarian at the Convent, the story unfolds as Beatrice unwittingly comes into possession of a powerful and mysterious book—revealed to be the Book of the Mother (Eve), who endures scorn from the followers of the Father and the biblical narrative for succumbing to temptation. This narrative beautifully showcases the indomitable power of women when they unite against the forces conspiring against them, and Meg C’s depiction of Father Abramo is nothing short of ruthless.

A Talented Man by Henrietta McKervey

This treasure was unearthed from a quaint charity shop, a place where hidden gems lie in wait, just waiting to be discovered! The story captivates us with the life of Ellis Spender, a man who craves a life bathed in comfort and wealth without lifting a finger. In a daring twist, he forges a sequel to Bram Stoker’s iconic Dracula, but the plot thickens when his accomplice, the audacious Janey, decides to flee. Enter the enigmatic and wicked Uncle Freddie Broughton, and suddenly, everything spirals into chaos—the dream of easy riches slips through his fingers.

Listen for the lie by Amy Tintera

This one’s a super quick and fun read! Lucy’s dealing with some heavy trauma and memory loss after that awful night when her best friend Savvy was killed. Everyone thinks Lucy did it, but there’s no proof. Then along comes Ben, a true crime podcaster, who dives back into the case and starts breaking it all down. Oh, and it’s just 99p on Kindle—how cool is that?

The Guest List by Lucy Foley

I devoured “The Hunting Party” by Lucy F, and this one is equally captivating! The story centres around a breathtakingly lavish wedding on a secluded Irish island, uniting a media mogul and a reality TV sensation. The characters are deeply complex, each with rich backstories that are masterfully intertwined, creating an exhilarating page-turner that keeps you on the edge of your seat until the very last moment. Yet, a poignant warning echoes throughout for those carrying the weight of trauma: this narrative also unveils the dark motivations of societal predators who insidiously infiltrate our lives, leaving behind a trail of distress and heartache.

The Butcher and the Wren by Alaina Urquhart

Dr. Wren, a brilliant forensic pathologist, finds herself entangled in a deadly chase with the Bayou Butcher, a merciless serial killer lurking in the shadows of New Orleans. This electrifying cat-and-mouse game escalates, and just when you think you have it all figured out, a breathtaking twist halfway through the book will leave you gasping in disbelief. I refuse to spoil the thrills for those yet to experience this literary gem, but with its thrilling 250-odd pages, this gripping read is an absolute must for anyone craving the spine-chilling rush of its gruesome details.

Uncertain times ahead

If ever there was a time steeped in uncertainty on the geopolitical stage, it is now! As we see a new era of American politics, while wars rage in the Middle East and Ukraine, our world teeters perilously between stability and chaos, between the embrace of common sense and the abyss of irrationality, and between the essence of being human and the chilling rise of neo-fascism. I implore each and every one of you, regardless of where you are, choose wisely! You might dismiss the significance of a single decision, but remember, every small choice contributes to a tidal wave of consequences that can change the course of history.
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September’s Cultural Events and Reflections

25th Sep 2024

AI, Architectural, Art, Exhibitions, Lifestyle, Movies, Nature Illustrations, Newsletter, Social media, theatre
The ‘social media’ responsibility

As the saying goes, with power comes responsibility. However, social media channels often lack responsibility from the platform itself, creating a dangerous power dynamic. It’s crucial to consider the impact of what we post on such a public platform, where many followers may take your word as fact. While everyone is entitled to their opinions, it’s vital to express them clearly as opinions and not facts. For instance, someone may doubt the effectiveness of vaccines, which is their opinion, but claiming that vaccines will cause widespread epileptic seizures presents a certainty that exceeds mere opinion.

We have the incredible power to share our opinions, and it’s just as important for viewers to actively engage in checking the facts. While not everything that glitters is gold, the majority of what’s shared on social media can be verified, and many messages found on signboards, the sides of red buses, or at political rallies hold valuable opinions, regardless of the source. Reliable information is often sourced from trustworthy organisations (e.g., the Office of National Statistics, World Economic Forum) among other places. So, in essence, do your research because critical thinking is essential! And let’s celebrate the vital Freedom of Information Act!

And then there’s AI. AI, short for artificial intelligence, is crucial in shaping our future. Before diving into complex terminology, it’s vital to understand Predictive AI. This technology uses historical data to predict future trends. For example, if you often buy kitchen equipment, your ads will likely reflect that preference. This personalisation comes from analysing your consumption patterns. However, if your history includes harmful biases or hate, the content you see will align with that. A human brain can learn and grow, but AI can’t change unless its data sources do. If historical data predominantly shows males in societal roles, predictive AI may wrongly assume males are more competent than females. But is that the truth? I think not. If your views contribute to this bias, are you not partly responsible too?

In recent times, since the acquisition of former Twitter, now X, we’ve witnessed a disturbing surge in hate speech and misogyny on the platform (article linked). This has empowered individuals who revel in spreading animosity and have made it a focal point of their popularity. Governments seem powerless in this scenario due to the lack of regulation and oversight for social media. However, as enlightened and educated individuals, we hold the power to boycott such platforms. It is our usage that sustains these platforms, so let’s put an end to the propagation of hatred, if nothing else.

The art-y corner

Nice collection

The gorgeous town of Villefranche sur Mer, nestled near the sandy beach and serene blue waters of the Mediterranean Sea, is the final jewel in this collection (red church front). In my August newsletter, I showcased some of the illustrations based on my summer travel to Nice. It was an experimental endeavour to use pro markers and fine liner pens for this last one, and I am delighted that it has turned out so well.

Birds in Wetlands

John Milton’s epic Paradise Lost beautifully compares Satan to a bird in the Garden of Eden, portraying him as a powerful cormorant.
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Thence up he flew, and on the Tree of Life
The middle tree and highest there that grew,
Sat like a cormorant; yet not true life
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Cormorants exude a captivating prehistoric look, adorned with a long, sinuous neck, and bare yellow skin around the face, all culminating in a mesmerising pure emerald eye. If birds could convey emotion, a cormorant would epitomise wisdom and a world-weary perspective, as if it has gazed upon the world and embraced its complexity with unwavering intensity.

A captivating creature of our wetlands, the coot graces our park lakes, ponds, and rivers with its stunning presence. With its unconventional lobed toes, the coot exudes a unique grace, setting it apart from the typical webbed feet of ducks. Beneath its charming exterior, this excellent swimmer and diver conceals an aggressive and territorial nature, making it a captivating enigma of the avian world.

Never mind the glitz and glamour of Strictly Come Dancing; if you want to witness a truly enchanting display of fancy footwork, make your way to a nearby lake or reservoir and behold the wild dance of the great crested grebes. Their early spring courtship is a mesmerising spectacle of ‘mewing’ calls, synchronised swimming, elegant preening, and the magnificent fanning out of their feathery ruffs.

A bit of Jurassic

Towards the end of the summer holidays, we embarked on an exhilarating trip to Lyme Regis, a treasure trove of wonders, most notably the stunning Jurassic Coast. This time, fortune smiled upon us as the tides aligned perfectly, allowing us to dive into the thrilling adventure of fossil hunting along the picturesque shores. We unearthed countless fossils that now enrich our ever-growing household collection, igniting a spark of inspiration within me to create these vibrant dinosaur designs, celebrating the iconic species that fascinate us all! And if you’re wondering what is the chick doing in all this? Well chickens are a well known successor of dinosaurs especially the T-rex.

Athena

In my July newsletter, I joyfully illustrated the Greek goddess Aphrodite, and as I continue on this exciting journey of bringing to life the 12 Olympian gods, I’m thrilled to choose Athena as my next subject!

Athena is the revered Greek goddess celebrated for her wisdom, strategic warfare, and exquisite handicraft. She shines brightly as the beloved patron and protectress of numerous cities throughout Greece, especially the city of Athens, which joyfully bears her name. The magnificent Parthenon atop the Acropolis of Athens stands as a stunning tribute to her enduring legacy.

Outings in September

Stiff Upper Lip Jeeves (Theatre/Comedy)

This gig may have sadly ended, but oh, what a riot it was! Picture this: a stage play set in the courtyard of St Paul’s Church in Covent Garden, featuring a hilarious 4-person show by the Tethered Wits theatre company. Step into the whimsical world of Bertie Wooster, a charming young man with a knack for landing himself in the most ludicrous predicaments. Aside from remembering to bring a blanket for the later hours, it was a jolly good time in Covent Garden!

Don’t kill my Vibe (Nish Kumar) at the Ox Playhouse (Stand up comedy)

Nish Kumar, master of political satire and former host of The Mash Report (now Late Night Mash), is touring the UK’s major towns. If you enjoy sharp-witted comedy that critiques our democracy and the 14-year Tory reign, Nish is your guy. I grabbed the last ticket for an unmissable night filled with his humorous takes on parliament, elections, Rwanda, Gaza, and eccentric millionaires. Check out his tour dates for this rollercoaster 1-man show packed with 2 hours of comedic gold!

Lee at Vue Cinemas (Biopic/Historical)

Kate Winslet delivers a stunning performance as Lee Miller, the wartime photographer during the Second World War. The narrative follows her journey from model to photographer, as she and Andy Samberg’s David E. Scherman document key events like the London Blitz and the liberation of Paris. Their compelling images reveal the true horrors of the Nazis, especially the concentration camps at Buchenwald and Dachau. It’s disheartening to see such powerful stories marginalized by some media segments. Yet, for those wanting to awaken their inner diva, this film offers a glimmer of hope and the inspiration to persevere.

Bibliophile

The Cloisters by Katy Hays (Gothic/Horror)

Katy Hays’s debut novel delves into the mesmerising world of tarot, weaving together themes of obsession, academic rivalry, and Renaissance sorcery. At the heart of the narrative is Ann Stilwell, a young graduate from Washington State captivated by the enigmatic allure of the Renaissance era and its opulent displays of authority. Venturing into the evocative setting of the Met Cloisters in upper Manhattan, a museum akin to a treasure trove, Ann and her colleague Rachel find themselves under the magnetic influence of the charismatic Patrick Roland. Embrace the mystery, delve into the pages, and prepare to be spellbound—even if you approach the world of Tarot with skepticism.

James by Percival Everett (Satire/History)

If there’s only one book you read this year, then this is the one! It’s a brilliantly clever, satirical, and poignant retelling of the Mark Twain classic, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn. Percival Everett, a giant of contemporary English literature, has truly gifted the world with this book, where the primary voice belongs to the slave Jim, who accidentally becomes a companion to Huck Finn.

Within its 300-odd pages, this book encapsulates the perils of Jim’s life as a slave, his growing frustration and anger towards the white slave owners, and his conflicted affection and son-like love for Huckleberry Finn. It serves as a poignant reminder of the inhumanity of the past and urges us to strive for progress rather than regress to primitive ways when making choices as responsible citizens and electing leaders.

The Trees by Percival Everett (Crime/Satire/Horror)

Everett’s, The Trees, takes place in Money, Mississippi, exploring the lives of a dysfunctional white family – Granny C, her son Wheat Bryant, and her nephew, Junior Junior. The discovery of Wheat’s lifeless body alongside a young Black man, followed by the disappearance of the latter, triggers a chilling chain of events. This unsettling pattern repeats with Junior Junior, intensifying the narrative into a bone-chilling horror story. The haunting tale serves as a tangible reminder of America’s deeply ingrained societal scars. Notably, Money, Mississippi holds a grim place in history as the site of the 1955 lynching of 14-year-old Emmett Till, shockingly linked to Granny C. Everett’s unflinching storytelling exposes uncomfortable societal truths, laying bare the harsh realities through his merciless portrayal of white society.

Wrapping up (literally!)

September holds a special place in our hearts. It marks the end of summer, when the air begins to cool and a sense of anticipation fills the atmosphere. As a new school year commences, our household embraces the opportunity to dedicate September to a takeaway-free month, a conscious effort to counterbalance the indulgence of the summer holidays. The anticipation of crackling wood fires, steaming hot soups, leisurely strolls and the joy of gathering pine cones, immersing myself in countless books, and embracing cozy layers to ward off the chill fills me with a warm feeling.

And this season in India is the season of festivals, a time that fills my heart with longing. The lingering scent of coal takes me back to the captivating dhunuchi naach, where dancers hold open earthen pots filled with burning coconut husks, and the aroma of burnt sugar brings back memories of gurer payesh, the sweet rice pudding made with jaggery. Despite the distance, I celebrate by preparing traditional Bengal dishes and recreating the flavours my parents lovingly cooked during these joyous months.
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Embracing the Beauty of Ageing

19th Jul 2024

Architectural, Art, Exhibitions, Lifestyle, Movies, Nature Illustrations, Newsletter, theatre
Please, please, please let us age in peace

Ageing is like a surprise party thrown by Mother Nature (other than menopause) – you never quite know what to expect! While we’re on the hunt for the fountain of youth, the reality is that most “anti-ageing” products are just a cunning disguise in a bottle, with a dash of movie magic and a hint of self-care thrown in.

Moving on in years is like levelling up in a video game – you gain some perks but also unlock some unexpected challenges! One of the perks of aging is collecting a treasure trove of wacky experiences and the superpower to handle all sorts of weird situations. As we get older, we get more street-smart, but let’s not forget that there’s no universal cheat code for this game called life.

Outside of the Vogues and Hellos of the world, there’s this relentless societal pressure to cling to youth, leaving us with comments like “You look like you’ve just finished high school, not like you’re in your 50s” flooding social media. But hey, let’s get real for a moment – true fulfilment doesn’t come from a wrinkle-free facade.

We’re talking about racking up some serious wins here, like securing that sweet financial independence, conquering the elusive career ladder, soaking up all that juicy knowledge, spreading kindness like confetti, and growing a social circle that’s bigger than a fan club for cat memes.

So with that I’ll reuse the words from Sabrina Carpenter’s latest smash hit – “Please please please” let us age in peace. Stop judging people because of their age or how they age. It’s pointless, shallow, and is an utter waste of time. Age is not a measure of worth or value, and it’s important to recognise and respect the individual journey of each person. Let’s focus on the richness of life experiences, the depth of character, and the unique stories that come with different stages of life. Instead of fixating on surface-level appearances, let’s appreciate the depth and strength that come with aging gracefully.

What’s cooking in the studio?

More birds (its summer!)

I’ve had countless encounters with the elusive pied wagtail, though I never bothered to learn its official title. Blame it on the giant fuchsia bush we inherited with the house – it was practically a beast. Taming that thing was an epic saga, and as a result, I’ve sworn off fuchsias for life in my garden.

And the magnificent great blue heron, a proud resident of North America and the Galapagos Islands. Adorned with its stunning blue hues and whiskery feathers, it exudes a distinguished air, reminiscent of a venerable old gentleman.

Considering the UK mainland is located in the middle of an ocean, sea birds abound, and I’d like to begin with this illustration of gannets alongside some sea thrift on a cliff. The seas around our islands are indisputably the best place in the world to observe northern gannets, as over half of the world’s population nests here.

Exploring the cute

I began capturing sketches of adorable subjects such as the lovely hedgehog. In my garden, sightings of them are quite rare, but we were fortunate enough to encounter one a couple of weeks ago. They are incredibly tiny and spiky, with the most captivating eyes. Every checkbox is ticked for them to be called cute!

And if you’re searching for that heartwarming, delightful experience, the irresistibly charming red pandas are the perfect choice. They hold a special place in my daughter’s heart, and we simply can’t resist visiting them at the Cotswolds wildlife park.

Monogamous, mated for life, and colourful – no, we’re not talking about me! Instead, we’re talking about these stunning and adorable love birds native to sub-Saharan Africa. Though having a partner for life is the dream, reality often has other plans.

When you mention the largest rodent, it’s easy to envision something unappealing, but just wait until you lay your eyes on the Capybaras – they’re an absolute delight! Indigenous to South America, these adorable creatures can also be spotted relaxing in hot springs in Japan, or strolling around zoos in North America.

Love, war and wisdom as the Greeks would have it

I wanted to capture the essence of Greek gods and goddesses as if they were living among the beauty of nature, seamlessly blending in with their surroundings. To begin with, I undertook the task of depicting the Greek goddess Aphrodite, the Olympian embodiment of love, beauty, pleasure, and procreation. A dove, apple, scallop shell (background of the illustration is a scalloped pattern), and mirror (just the frame around the illustration) are just some of the symbolic elements that adorn her divine presence.

A picnic at WaterPerry Gardens

Waterperry gardens at this time of the year are a sight to behold! The enchanting water lilies, the graceful dragonflies, the charming greenhouse, and the abundant fruit trees create a paradise of vibrant greenery that is utterly breathtaking. It’s a place where one can momentarily escape reality and revel in the pure beauty of nature. Our visit included a delightful picnic, some engrossing books, and a lively card game under the warm sunshine. If you haven’t experienced this haven, I urge you to do so. The plant nursery and the events at the open-air auditorium only add to the allure of this magical place.

Did you see?

A Family Affair – Netflix

Starring Joey King, Zac Efron, Nicole Kidman, and Kathy Bates, this romcom is an easy watch. It follows film star Chris Cole, who falls for an older woman (Nicole Kidman), leading to awkwardness as she is the mother of his assistant, Joey King. Despite any criticism, I enjoyed the film because it portrays women in a positive light, emphasising that a woman’s age is just a number. One of my favourite dialogues is when Nicole Kidman asks her mother-in-law, “Do you ever feel irrelevant?” to which she confidently responds, “No, I find myself absolutely fascinating!” If only we could spread that level of confidence to every woman, we would all be living our best lives!

Quiet Place Day one – Vue

Sometimes you just need a bit of horror to jolt you awake and escape from the daily grind, or maybe to develop a newfound appreciation for reality. The latest instalment in the Quiet Place series reveals how “it all began,” as ultra-sensitive hearing aliens wreak havoc on Earth. And where better to set this chaos than in the bustling city of New York? Lupita N plays a terminal cancer patient with her trusty “guide cat,” caught in the middle of the chaos, while Joseph Quinn, a law student from Kent, teams up with Lupita to either survive or become alien prey. With a few spine-tingling moments, surreal special effects, and the remarkable fact that the movie makes an impact with less than half the usual Hollywood decibels, it’s definitely worth a watch!

The Jetty – BBC one

Jenna Coleman delivers a powerful performance as DC Manning in this intense drama centered around a girl’s disappearance in Lancashire. The show delves into sensitive topics such as consent, misguided youth, and abuse. If you’re drawn to shows with compelling plots and strong female leads, this is a must-watch.

Wicked – Musical at Apollo Theatre, London

The retelling of the story of Elphaba, the Wicked Witch of the East from the Wizard of Oz, from the perspective of Glinda the Good was a captivating experience. The show challenges societal preconceptions of good and evil, ultimately highlighting the subjective nature of these concepts. While Glinda exudes charm and wins people over, she also complies with an engagement to the Prince and conceals the Wizard’s atrocities. Conversely, Elphaba, an emerald green outcast, advocates for animals and causes upheaval in the city of Oz.

The Constituent – Old Vic

Starring James Corden and Ana Maxwell Martin, this powerful political drama runs for an hour and a half. Despite its shorter duration, it delivers a significant impact and makes a bold statement, perfectly reflecting the current social climate. The play delves into the complex relationship between Ana Maxwell’s character, Monica, an MP and backbencher, and Corden’s character, Alec, a struggling ex-military dealing with PTSD and a challenging divorce. It raises thought-provoking questions about the true nature of good and evil, the responsibilities of MPs and politicians to their constituents, the deep flaws in our social services system, and the individuals who are overlooked by it. Currently running at the Old Vic, this enthralling production comes highly recommended for an unforgettable evening.

Twelfth Night – Shakespeare at the Oxford Castle

Based on the Bard’s manuscript, this performance by the Wild Goose Theatre is a delightful showcase in the serene yet grand courtyard of the Oxford Castle. The characters exuberantly dance, sing, and display passionate yearning for their desired affections. It presents a lighthearted love triangle filled with joyful songs and captivating music. If you’re seeking an uplifting evening to unwind, this is the perfect performance to experience. Remember to grab a blanket from the counter, as it promises to be a memorable evening. Catch it until the 27th of July.

Recipe for a summer drink

Strawberry Lemonade is our household drink for summer. I recommend starting by boiling a litre of water with around 110g of caster sugar. Let it cool in the fridge while you mash the fruit. This approach works well for me, especially with a 9-5 work schedule, as it allows me to prepare the base in the morning and finish the lemonade just before dinner.

What really gives the drink the tang factor is the precise combination of 500g of strawberries, juice of 4 lemons and 1 lime processed in a food processor and strained through a sieve or muslin cloth to extract the puree. This vibrant puree is then mixed with the sugar water, which should be suitably cooled by this stage. Experimenting with raspberries, I found that 250g of raspberries and 250g of strawberries create an even sharper taste and a homemade version of pink lemonade.

Finish it off by generously topping it with ice. Not only is this a delightful beverage, but it also serves as an excellent palate cleanser. After a heavy meal, this refreshing drink will certainly rejuvenate your senses.

To enjoy while it lasts

Warm summer days, blossoms in the garden, the fading age of innocence giving way to self-awareness – these are fleeting moments to be savoured with passion. Embracing the present is a practice we often neglect, yet it holds the power to heal and create enduring memories.

So with that in mind, we’ve scheduled delightful picnics in the nearby park, an exhilarating trip to the city to enjoy a captivating musical, and engaging in intense badminton matches in the garden, where the shuttlecock often ventures into our neighbour’s lush lawn. Although seemingly modest, these simple yet joyful experiences entwined together form the essence of an unforgettable summer.
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